Cavallo, currently the only out gay player in a top-tier men’s football league worldwide, came on as a substitute in the 54th minute at AAMI Park on Saturday night.
He said he had “no words” to describe his disappointment at receiving abuse from the crowd and on Instagram, but also noted he appreciated hearing from other fans who’d made contact after “making a stand at the game” against it.
The abuse came just over two months after the 22-year-old made international headlines and received worldwide support when he came out via social media and Adelaide United’s online channels on October 27.
“I’m not going to pretend that I didn’t see or hear the homophobic abuse at the game last night,” Cavallo said on Instagram on Sunday.
“There are no words to tell you how disappointed I was. As a society this shows we still face these problems in 2022.
“This shouldn’t be acceptable and we need to do more to hold this (sic) people accountable. Hate never will win.
“I will never apologise for living my truth and most recently who I am outside of football.”
Cavallo said in addition to abuse at the game, he’d also received “hateful and hurtful messages” on Instagram.
“To @instagram I don’t want any child or adult to have to receive the hateful and hurtful messages that I’ve received,” he said.
“I knew truly being who I am that I was going to come across this.
“It’s a sad reality that your platforms are not doing enough to stop these messages.”
The abuse was roundly condemned on Sunday and Victory said they were working with Australian Professional Leagues, AAMI Park and Adelaide on an investigation.
“Spectators found to have breached these standards will be banned from future matches,” the club said in a statement.
APL chief executive Danny Townsend said the league would “issue sanctions to any people found to be involved”.
Adelaide chief executive Nathan Kosmina said the Reds were “appalled” by the abuse.
“Adelaide United is proud to be an inclusive and diverse football club, and to see one of our players subjected to homophobic abuse is disappointing and upsetting,” he said.
“Josh continues to show immense courage and we join him in calling out abuse, which has no place in society, and it will not be tolerated by our club.
“We will continue to work with the Australian Professional Leagues and Melbourne Victory to identify perpetrators and prosecute them accordingly.”
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